The first thing I think about when I open my tired eyes in the morning is everything that I must accomplish that day and the little amount of time I get to complete these tasks. Just those thoughts overwhelm me and I begin the day thinking I failed at this mom and wife thing.
How many wives and moms go through every day feeling content with checking off everything on their to-do list? I am sure, not many if any!
You are not the only one who thinks working full time, being a mom, and being a great wife is virtually impossible every single day! I know some days you rock it, but let’s be honest that is not every day!
You are not the only mom who sees other moms making the cute treats for their kid’s class and think Lord I suck! You are not the only one who sees other moms attending every school function and think my poor kid is missing out. You are not the only one who hears stories of husbands and wives going on romantic getaways or even actually going on a simple date and think our marriage is failing. You are not the only one swinging through a drive-thru for dinner while wishing you could be that mom that cooks every night.
You are NOT the only one!
I have days where I feel like I can conquer the world and then days where I feel like an absolute slob and only want to watch Lifetime and eat ALL DAY!
Yes, this is my living room often! Laundry is my worst enemy and I know I am not alone here!
It’s ok Momma!!! It is ok to have those days where you stay in your PJs all day and don’t even brush your teeth. It’s ok to not be the Mom of the Year or the Best Wife Ever every single day.
When you have days like this enjoy your “day off” and try again tomorrow. It’s ok to cry and think poor pitiful me. But do not unpack and stay there! Cry it out in your bed and then get back up and refocus!
Momma, it’s normal to have these feelings! We all compare ourselves to other moms and wives. STOP doing that! Most of these comparisons come from social media. Social media has caused us to be jealous of illusions. Most of these things we as moms and wives are envious of do not even exist! Comparison is the thief of joy. Do not let it steal your joy!
- You got this!
- You are enough!
- You are a great mother!
- You are an amazing wife!
You are unstoppable not because you do not have failures, doubts, or insecurities. But because you kept on going when you thought you could not.
Sometimes I think we as coaches’ wives think we have to be tougher than others, but we don’t! We are normal and have these feelings and live emotional roller coasters too. Just embrace the highs and race through the lows of being a coach’s wife and momma!
You were handpicked to live this life with your Hubs and serve right beside him, what a blessing!
Enjoy this Coach Wife Life and remember to breathe!