Put me in Coach!

I hear the whispers and conversations. I hear you praying, pleading, & begging. I hear them asking if it has happened yet.

I’m ready Coach!

Do not let this heartache you feel steal your joy or hope. I know this is a heartache that you feel deep in your bones and it seems never-ending. I am a miracle and miracles take time, so just relax!

I’m eager Coach!

I know every month your dreams are being shattered. I know I am your deepest desire. I know I will be loved and cherished.

I’m anxiously waiting Coach!

I listen as my Sissy and Bubby pray for miracles. Do not let them give up. Teach them never to give up on someone or something that you love so deeply.

I’m hopeful Coach!

I know it isn’t easy when everyone else is getting exactly what you want. I know it’s not easy to smile when all you want to do is cry.  I know it’s not easy to wait your turn.

I’m all in Coach!

Mommy stop saying you are too old! Keep your faith that you will soon see two pink lines. It WILL happen.

I’m certainly determined Coach!

You are not alone in this battle. ALL of God’s promises are YES and AMEN. Stay strong Mommy and Daddy and please keep your faith!


Obviously Coach and I have been struggling with infertility, just as so many others.  I just want others like us to know all the feelings you’re feeling are normal.   If you have not suffered with infertility I, along with a few other women walking in my shoes ask a few things of you

-Pray for us.

-Please do not tell us to relax, or just adopt, or tell us it will happen.

-Please do not ask whose fault it is.  We are a couple.  We are one, we are either fertile or infertile as a couple.

-Do not feel sorry for us or tiptoe around us about your babies or pregnancies.  Yes, we struggle. But, we place our faith in God, lean on the grace of our marriage, and trust that someday we will see and understand God’s plan. 

Thank you for reading our story and walking with us during our journey. If you are walking this path like us please remember to stay strong and try your best to be positive. God hears your prayers. He put that desire in your heart and He WILL fulfill it. Here are a few Bible Verses to help keep you encouraged.                                                                                          

  • “He gives the barren woman a home, making her the joyous mother of children. Praise the Lord!” Psalm 113:9
  • “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” Philippians 4:13
  • “Isaac prayed to the LORD on behalf of his wife, because she was childless. The LORD answered his prayer, and his wife Rebekah became pregnant.” Genesis 25:21
  • “Commit your way to the Lord, trust also in Him, and He shall bring it to pass.” Psalm 37:5
  • “Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours.” Mark 11:24

I am blessed that my Coach is the one God chose for me. There’s no other life I’d rather live than a Coach Wife Life!

Author: Kim Bachman

I am full time working mom married to the love of my life who happens to be an ah-maze-ing football coach!💜💛🏈💛💜We have 2 beautiful children and we are currently ttc #3. I love to blog as an encouragement to others. It is also a therapeutic outlet for myself! 😊

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